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25 Self Care Ideas To Incorporate Into Your Life

Self-care is frequently associated with selfish behavior. This type of mentality usually makes us feel guilty for even thinking about taking a break from our everyday lives to do something that, simply put, makes us feel better and improves our mental health.

We’re all familiar with the saying “You can’t pour from an empty cup”, but how often do we actually take heed of those words? I, myself have been guilty of this. But I had to learn to make myself a priority.  No matter how fancy the term “self-care” may sound, it is highly crucial to our mental, emotional, and physical well-being.

When it comes to carving out the time to practice self-care, think about this: You probably don’t engage in it often enough, which in turn means that you are left feeling tired, run-down, and overly frustrated. Sis, it’s time to treat yo self!

I mean, how often do you make time for the things that you love? If your answer is not very often or not at all, then it’s time to make some serious changes in your life, my friend. It’s time you made yourself a priority.

If you are not sure where to begin on your self-care journey, here are 25 ideas to help you get started:



“I have come to believe that caring for myself is not self indulgent. Caring for myself is an act of survival.”

Audre Lorde


25 Self Care Ideas

1. Turn off your phone for a few hours, and totally unplug.
2. Have a mini pamper session.
3. Go for a long walk, or run.
4. Start a gratitude journal. Write down 3 things you’re grateful for each day.
5. Indulge in some retail therapy.
6. Treat yourself to your favorite dessert. Or better yet, bake your own dessert.
7. Buy yourself some flowers.
8. Close your eyes and listen to some relaxing music.
9. Remove the toxicity from your life. Sever the ties with any unhealthy relationships.
10. Call someone you love and have a meaningful conversation.
11. Curl up on the couch or bed and read a good book.
12. Take a much-needed nap.
13. Plan a fun weekend for yourself and your partner. Or head out on a solo trip.
14. Create healthy boundaries. Don’t be afraid to say NO.
15. Sleep in on the weekend.
16. Spend some time in the sun.
17. Have a girls’ night in, and pop a few bottles.
18. Cuddle with your favorite person (or pet).
19. Engage in some aromatherapy. Burn your favorite candle or diffuse some essential oils.
20. Watch a stand-up comedy show, and laugh out loud.
21. Enjoy the outdoors. Sit on your porch or patio and just soak it all in.
22. Take a day off of work if needed.
23. Take several deep breaths. Inhale deeply and exhale slowly.
24. Journal. Get it all out on paper.
25. Try something new. When was the last time you tried something out for the first time? Join a sports club. Learn how to play an instrument. Find a new activity that you’ve always wanted to do, but felt like you didn’t have the time.

Lastly, don’t wait until you can “fit it into your schedule” to take some time for yourself. Start immediately, and make it a part of your everyday routine. Small changes can make a big difference, so you only need to implement a few activities into your daily schedule. Trust me, my friend, you won’t regret it!


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